Happy
President’s Day! If you’ve been following the Poetry Postcard Project, you know
that I share a birthday with President George Washington, 2/22. (More about
that shared birthday on Friday.)
Postcard
#28 was one of the original 17 cards I bought from an Ellicott City antique
shop. (Postcard #30, posted for Valentine’s Day, is by the same company.)
Originally,
I was drawn to this card by the bright colors and the 40s cartoon style. It’s a
little goofy. However, when I pulled the card, what drew me into the poem was
on the back of the card. It came pre-stamped, and that stamp (George
Washington, BTW, President’s Day celebrants), was on the postcard upside down.
That rang a bell.
From
the time I was ten years old through part of middle school, I went to summer
camp in New York’s Catskill mountains. Camp lasted for eight weeks. Getting and
sending mail was a big deal -- our best and only way of staying in touch with
friends and family. Cool stationery was a status symbol, and something to trade
on a rainy day.
What
I remembered from camp was this: placing a stamp upside down on a letter means “I
love you.”
When
and how did that originate? According to About.com’s article on stamps, it
began during the Victorian era.
Here's the code, borrowed from the About.com article:
"Upside down: I love you.
Sideways, head right: Love and kisses.
Sideways, head left: I'll never leave you.
Diagonal to the right: Marry me?
Diagonal to the left: Yes, I'll marry you."
Sideways, head right: Love and kisses.
Sideways, head left: I'll never leave you.
Diagonal to the right: Marry me?
Diagonal to the left: Yes, I'll marry you."
But the website said there is a different if the stamp has
a flag. “If you see an upside down flag stamp on an envelope today, it may be
an echo of the unpopular Viet Nam war, when protesters used the gimmick as a
method of protest,” John Finch writes in the article.
My postcard poem for today is in the voice of a wartime
sweetheart, writing to a soldier. The opening borrows lines from the front of
the postcard.
1 Cent Stamp, Upside Down
Why
don’t you write?
Long
time no see!
Are
you stateside
or
overseas?
I
heard that wives
use an old trick --
inverting stamps
use an old trick --
inverting stamps
with
one damp lick.
A
flag would mean,
if upside down,
I hate the war
because you’re gone.
My stamp is plain.
I’m not your wife,
if upside down,
I hate the war
because you’re gone.
My stamp is plain.
I’m not your wife,
but
I love you
with
all my life.
Laura
Shovan
For
another poem of protest, visit www.newversenews.com. Postcard Poem #41, “Greetings from Fort McClellan” was featured at the current
events poetry journal yesterday. I'll blog about the poem next week.
Curious about President's Day? KidzWorld.com has an article about the holiday's origins.
Happy Presidents' Day! I remember in the 1980s getting letters from a boy friend with the stamp upside down. :-) I wonder if kids today have heard that? I also wonder what happened so the person who originally bought that postcard and put the stamp on never sent it.
ReplyDeleteI like that you meshed both meanings into your poem, Laura. I remember well my father getting so angry when he heard that some were posting with that upside down flag stamp during the Vietnam war time. I don't think I ever heard of the earlier messages about love. Fun to know.
ReplyDeleteThanks for all that stamp lore, Laura! That post card poem is another winner, too - especially those last three lines...in love and an ocean apart, right?!
ReplyDeleteHi, Linda. Thank you for sharing that memory of your father. I was speaking with some poets about the war over the weekend. My parents lived in Thailand for a year in 1966 and never spoke of the war in Viet Nam while I was goring up.
ReplyDeleteTara, thank you. I like being unsure, myself, whether the soldier returns the speakers' love.